Internet Safety For Kids

he Internet has opened up a virtual world of information for anyone with a computer and an on-line connection. Children not only learn about computers, but are able to access more information from more sources more quickly than from any other medium. However, children need to learn the rules of the road, and learn how to protect themselves from the pedophiles, abusers, and con artists that may be lurking behind their screen. With a little bit of planning and appropriate adult supervision, children can explore and learn while minimizing, or eliminating the dangers of being abused or exploited.

Just like in a park or public place, a child's best defense is a sound value system and a plan. Teach your children about exploitation, pornography, hate literature, and violence. Teach them what to do when someting they see is troubling or bothersome to them.
Set aside time to explore the Internet together. That way, you can set the examples of how suspicious messages or people are appropriately handled, and you may be better informed yourself.
Monitor your children when they are on line. If your child becomes uneasy or defensive when you enter the room, it might mean that they are involved in something unusual or forbidden.
Choose an Internet Provider that has parental control features, and learn how to use them. Or, you may purchase commercial blocking software to screen out sites by content and key words you find objectionable. Such blocking is very effective, and is already done by local libraries and schools.
Tell children NEVER to give out personal information, such as address, telephone number, or their parent's name. They should NEVER send pictures of themselves to anyone they don't know, or that YOU have not met in person.
Assume NOTHING about anyone you or your child may meet on-line. Pedophiles and con artists can easily assume the on-line identity, language and apparent interests of a child of any age and sex in order to lure and entice them to respond as they might to a real person. Unless you have met someone in person, what appears to be a chatty 15-year- old girl might actually be a 45-year-old male pedophile.

Important Tip

The worst place to put a computer that a child will use to surf the Internet is in their room or other private place. Always place Internet connected computers in a common room so that you can monitor your child's Internet conduct. They will be less inclined to seek innapropriate content if they know you are watching over their shoulder.

If you or your child comes across material that you find pornographic, threatening, or otherwise offensive, it might well be a violation of law. Save the material, and contact your local law enforcement agency. The Philadelphia Police Department has forensic computer investigation facilities and experienced law enforcement personnel specifically trained to investigate computer crime, and in particular, computer crime focused on child abuse and exploitation.

Another resource is the National Center for Missing or Exploited Children. They function as a national clearinghouse for tips and leads regading the sexual exploitation of children. You can call the 24-hour Child Pornography Tipline at 1-800-843-5678, or make your reports on-line at their website, http://www.missingkids.com/. They will compile and forward the information to the appropriate state, federal, or local law enforcement agency for action.